FAQ and Myths

Frequently asked Questions and Myths

Right off top, most important myth to dispel:

“I don’t want anonymous sex. I want to have a ‘connection’.”

  1. Our events are not void of ‘connections’, we’re just more open to the possibility and therefore it usually happens faster;
  2. We are not strangers. We meet frequently and we are friends. Most events are 80% returning/regular members. We are a community; not strangers.
  3. If you were truly honest, out in the ‘vanilla’ world, how long does it take to make a ‘connection’? Is it not instantly? You know immediately if there’s a connection or not. Granted some relationships evolve over time. Both are true here also.